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Tipping

I recently got my hair cut, and that got me thinking about tipping. For the longest time, I was not aware that it was common practice to tip for a hair cut. Once I made the discovery, I of course felt bad for all the times in the past when I did not tip, but that is not to say I necessarily agree or even understand the protocol. I just don’t want to seem like a cheap bitch.

I understand and agree with the custom of tipping; a small gratuity in appreciation for services rendered.  What boggles my mind are all the situations where one would be expected to tip. Let’s start with the basics; a restaurant. In a restaurant, you pay for the product, which is the food and drink you order, and tip the service you receive with the food. In addition, it’s common knowledge servers make very little in hourly salary; in New York state the minimum is $4.75. The rest of their income is supplemented by tips. This is very straightforward and I have no problem with this. It’s other areas that confuse me.

Let’s take getting a haircut as an example.  When you get a haircut, you pay for the service of someone cutting and styling your hair for you. The more the haircut cost, the more one can reasonably expect professional and quality service. So, why do you have tip on a service you’re already paying for?

Another confusing area is with food delivery. Here in Buffalo, many places will tack on a $2.50 fee if you want food delivered. Again, why do I need to tip the driver when I’m already paying for the service of having the food delivered?

Feeling a little Loonie…and Toonie

The media giant that is the Buffalo News had an article on cross-border currency acceptance

It’s mostly pretty boring, with a long-winded inclusion of what notable are establishments, on both sides or the border, do and don’t take foreign currency. There is however, this amusing bit:

Americans also are used to looking down on Canadian currency for its lower value, multi-hued paper money and oddly named $1 and $2 coins.

Really??? Who does that besides lame-ass comedians? Personally, I think Canadian currency is pretty cool and interesting. It’s a multi-colored rainbow that highlights important aspects of Canadian culture:

From low to high, here is what is depicted on the reverse side:

Children playing hockey and other winter sports; excerpt from “The Hockey Sweater” byRoch Carrier

Peacekeeping forces and war memorial; excerpt from “In Flanders Fields” by John McCrae

Artwork of Bill Reid; excerpt from Gabrielle Roy‘s novel, The Hidden Mountain.

The Famous Five and Thérèse Casgrain; quotation from the Universal Declaration of Human Rights

Maps of Canada, historic and modern; excerpt from Miriam Waddington‘s poem, “Jacques Cartier in Toronto”

I think the $20 is my favorite design. I admit, when I first started going to Canada, I used to use American currency. I had it, everyone took it, why not? Even if I got screwed on the exchange, it was easy. Now, I make a point to have at least a little bit of Canadian cash. It’s even easier to use a currency in it’s native country, and good to have for those places that don’t accept any type of credit card.

For the American side, I really don’t what to say except if you’re not American, quit your bitching. American businesses have no legal obligation to accept Canadian money, they do it out of the kindness of their hearts. If they decide they don’t want to take Canadian any more, too damn bad. Deal with it. I can attest that at least in my neck of the woods, one has plenty of opportunity to exchange monies.

I only hold this viewpoint for paper currencies and the dollar coins, I think smaller coins are so trivial it really doesn’t matter. Though, it is amusing to see the occasional American cashier flip out over a Canadian penny in her register drawer.

Hot time in the old town tonight

Growing up in Indiana,  I was no stranger to the four seasons. Winters were cold and full of snow, summers were hot and humid, spring and fall brought some fleeting moments of temperate weather.

Thinking back to my summer vacations between school years, nothing strikes me as out of the ordinary. Sure it was hot, but it never seemed to bother me. It could be because I had an air-conditioned home to rest in, or that the opportunity to play in a cool lake all day was a regular occurrence, or possibly not. It could have simply been that heat did not bother me.

As an adult, that has changed.  I get uncomfortable above 80, and also experience the bonus of  heat edema which only adds to my personal discomfort. Here in Buffalo it’s been a very balmy 85+ the past few days, and for the most part I’ve been a miserable mess.  Unfortunately, most houses in Buffalo predate the invention of central air, coming home to relax is difficult to do when it’s 90 degrees.  A single window air-conditioner helps, though after the first Buffalo summer I’ve learned to put it where it counts; in the bedroom where I can be assured of at least a restful sleep.  I hate to say it, but days like these make me wish for winter, where if I’m too cold, I can always put on another layer.

Thankfully, the current heat wave will break soon.

Live in Buffalo

Last night was a filled with firsts for me. It was my first time to a bar in Buffalo, my first concert in Buffalo, my first time time seeing Ubiquitious Synergy Seeker (USS) live, as well as it being the bands first Buffalo show. I’m not a huge concert-goer, but I’ve been to a handful of both big and small name performers at venues of all sizes. I can say with confidence that last night’s show was the most entertaining I’ve ever been to.

The venue: Mohawk Place.  Located in downtown Buffalo, Mohawk Place is made up of a long, narrow bar with a couple of alcoves that opens up slightly to the stage area.  The area is small and intimate, and you’re never more than 15-20 feet from the stage, which is raised about 4 feet off the ground. It’s fantastic if you’re in the stage area, not so much if you’re back by the front door.  We got there early and were able to secure a corner spot, and I was even able to sit on an unused section of the bar for a better view.  I’ve been unable to locate a firm capacity number for the location, I have to say it was pretty packed;  it was announced that only 75 tickets were available for the show, which did end up selling out.

The opener: Chae Hawk.  Local to Buffalo, his act consisted of 3-4 songs done in the rap genre. Technically speaking, his rap skills seemed okay enough, though his subject matter of homeboys, women, weed, and drinking, was cliche.  I’m fairly certain I wasn’t the only one that was bored with his performance, the crowd in general wasn’t responding to him. A few times I found myself more interested with the guy that was using a Canon DSLR kit to film the performance.

The headliner: USS. A duo from Toronto, USS describes their genre as “mixture of drum and bass beats, grunge-like guitar riffs and 2-step rhythms.” I have no idea that that means exactly, but my ear likes what they put out. USS played for about an hour, performing some of their more popular song as well as a covers of The White Stripes “Fell in Love With a Girl” and Outkast “Hey Ya!”. The music was upbeat and energetic, but what really made the show were the zany antics of both Ash Buchholz and Human Kebab. They started the show with the Top Gun theme as their intro and it got crazier from there. Human Kebab spent much of the show either dancing wildly, doing handstands, scratching with his feet, head, elbows, or whatever was available. He’s either incredibly fit or takes an insane amount of vitamin B to be able to preform like that regularly. He seemed to be very fond of a guy in the front row with a shaved head, quite a few times going over to rub it, and at one point pulling him on stage, putting him on his shoulders and using the guys feet to scratch the record. They finished the set by chugging smoothies made onstage by Ash. A crowd chant of USS rather than the typical Encore brought them back out, with Ash carrying a shovel and asking “Are you digging our shit?” They finished the encore by climbing on a ladder that had been set up onstage and doing an acoustic version of “Porno Star Trek”.

USS absolutely killed it in Buffalo. The crowd loved them, and I think part of that was it was obvious the guys were doing something they loved, and were having fun with it. Scott did comment that the person running the mixer didn’t do a good job, and the guitar was difficult to hear at times. In retrospect, I agree with that, however that isn’t anything the band could have helped.  Tickets for the show were only $10; even if they had been double that, it would have been worth it. When they come back to buffalo I plan on being there.

Here’s a clip from the show taken on my G1. The video quality is poor, deal with it.

Here’s a high-res from the McMaster University in September 2009

The Queen isn't in this city

I’m doing something a little different today.  First is an excerpt from an article I wrote two years ago, which I will follow up with what has happened since.

What it’s like to live in Buffalo

Depending on which report you look at, Buffalo hovers just above the bottom of the piggy bank, jostling spots with other perpetual bottom dwellers Miami, Cincinnati, Cleveland, and of course Detroit. As little as a week’s pay can raise or lower a city’s standing. According to the most recent surveys, Buffalo is second poorest city in the United States, a title that doesn’t boast quite the same excitement or good feeling the second richest city does. It’s best described as a shaky breath of relief, like paying the cell phone or cable bill just before it’s shut off.

After living here a while I’ve tried to justify the regressive and oppressive nature of things, to tell myself it’s not that bad living in Buffalo. But every time I visit another city, reality slaps me in face and reminds me that yes, it is THAT bad. Most people I’ve met here call Buffalo their hometown. Those that don’t rarely stay long enough to put down roots.

You can read the article in it’s entirely here.

I recalled this article because of a report I heard on the radio about a group of people meeting to discuss ways to combat Buffalo’s “poverty crisis”.  The good news is that Buffalo has moved up in the world to being only the third poorest city in the United States,  the bad news is that third worst is still a lot of poor people.

All too often,  people and groups state they are working to eliminate poverty. A search of that term yields around 750,000 results. Don’t misunderstand me, I’m not against their work, but their goal is an unrealistic one. Poverty as well as it’s inverse, prosperity have been present in all forms of society since the inception of the community. What makes this Buffalo workshop such a worthwhile program, is rather than trying to beat something so complex and enduring, they work to identify the areas of need and work to improve those, such as access to fresh vegetables or better and affordable health care.

In the few years since I wrote article above, incremental change of both positive and negative ways has occurred. Long-standing abandonments were torn down, others made empty and now hold the title of big empty. Houses that have been abandoned generally stay that way. Downtown is still quiet at night, and it’s not known if the hundreds of police cameras have made any effect on crime. The recession hurt an already struggling city, Buffalo suffers a 1:6 job ratio.

But as I said, there is some evidence of change. Most notably one house and a neighborhood underwent a huge and well deserved upgrade. As for the more commonplace, a stretch of  Amherst Street, once home to only a couple mid-range businesses, now has over half a dozen. The multiple yearly festivals and events soldier on, unchanged. Every weekend, scores of Canadians cross the border to spend money at Buffalo’s, albeit  suburban, malls.  It’s not perfect by any means, but it’s the standard here to cling to growth in just about any positive form.

And so Buffalo trudges on. People come, people go. Some days Buffalo feels familiar like home, other times I want to keep things at arm’s length. I do hold hope that Buffalo will get better, but most likely I’ll never see that transformation.